RU OK? Day is a vital reminder that a simple conversation can change a life, and our leisure centres offer the perfect low pressure environments to genuinely check in on your mates. Staying active together naturally breaks down barriers, making it easier to ask that all important question.
The Power of Side by Side Conversations
Sitting face to face can sometimes feel intimidating when discussing mental health or personal struggles. Engaging in a shared activity shifts the focus, easing the pressure and allowing conversations to flow naturally. Whether you are counting laps, or sweating it out in the gym, physical activity boosts endorphins and creates a safe, relaxed space to open up.
Great Spots to Reconnect
The Pool and Café: Swimming laps or relaxing in the aquatic area provides a calm, quiet atmosphere. Grabbing a coffee at the café after your session gives you the perfect, relaxed window to sit down and see how your friend is really doing.
Navigating the Conversation
If you notice a teammate, gym buddy, or friend seems a bit quiet or off their usual game, rely on the simple four step ALEC framework recommended by RU OK?:
Ask: Pick a relaxed moment during your activity and ask, "Are you OK?" or "What's been happening?"
Listen: Give them your full attention without interrupting or rushing to fix their problems. Sometimes people just need to be heard.
Encourage Action: Suggest they do something that might lighten the load, whether that is talking to a professional, prioritising rest, or just committing to another weekly workout together.
Check In: Pop a quick message or give them a call a few days later to see how they are tracking.
A workout, or a swim might just be the excuse you need to start a conversation that matters. Let’s look out for each other!
Useful Contacts
If you are concerned for your safety or the safety of others, seek immediate assistance by calling Triple Zero (000).
You can also seek support from your doctor or one of these support services (24/7).
Lifeline 13 11 14 lifeline.org.au
Beyond Blue 1300 224 636 beyondblue.org.au
Suicide Call Back Service 1300 659 467 suicidecallbackservice.org.au